1. Ooopps, I Forgot
When you have reminded your man a million times about that date and he makes an excuse saying that it slipped out of his mind, this is for sure a naive excuse. If you men can’t make it, we women would appreciate that you’re open to us by spilling out the truth.
2. I’m Extremely Busy
No one can be extremely busy, unless it is done on purpose. There is always time to spare around. Telling you that he is busy is up to your neck, and hence is one of the common excuses all men love to drag about.
3. I Couldn’t Get Through The Line
Most men forget to call their lady back and pass it off as if they have ‘sincerely’ forgotten to make that one call. Well, guys, we understand what you’ve really been up to!
4. Can We Sleep Now
Texting into the wee hours of the morning can be romantic, but what happens when that unexpected fight strikes, what does any man do? He will try to avoid it at any cost by exclaiming that he is extremely tired and ready to tuck into bed.
5. I Got Stuck In Traffic
This is an eternal excuse guys make to their girlfriends when they are late for that date. We ladies think it is time you guys come up with new excuses, or perhaps try the truth!
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1. Speak Clearly
This is the first thing a person notices. Be clear with your words and do not stammer and stumble with your words. This makes your crush think that you are nervous. They might even ignore you, thinking you are not a confident person. So, make sure you are clear with your words and make sense while you talk as well.
2. Watch Your Laugh
Do not laugh unnecessarily or laugh too much even when the joke is over. It simply makes you look dumb. If you laugh for every other sentence, you might be overdoing it. Remember to involve them in the conversation, otherwise it can make them feel you are self-obsessed.
3. Never Stalk Them
Just because they are your crush, it does not mean that you stalk their profile every time you log into your social site, just to check on them. This makes you get obsessed about them and this is not healthy. This is one of the things that you need to avoid.
4. Be A Friend
Getting friend-zoned is the most terrible thing that can happen to anybody and it is the worst, if it is your crush. To avoid this, you need to be confident enough to make them feel comfortable in your zone and let them talk to you like nobody else is watching. This helps them to connect to you easily and relate as well. These baby steps will make them fall in love with you slowly.
5. Use Your Body Language, But Do Not Overdo It
If you are talking to your crush and biting your lips all through the conversation, it is not a great scene to watch trust us. This can make them feel that you missed out on your chap stick! Trying to get their attention with these gestures is not a great idea. So, make sure you do not overdo it!
If you have any suggestions, do share them with us in the comment section below.
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During a guy or lady’s first date, whatever impression one leaves with one’s partner is almost certain to last forever. What either of the duo thinks about the other will go a long way in determining how long the ‘relationship’ will last.
There are so many red lights when starting a relationship, whether romantic or platonic, but whichever way the relationship will go is determined by the first date.
Therefore, one has to go the extra mile, just for the sake of the relationship, irrespective of the motive.
For the guys, . are 10 things you should not do when you are having a date with a lady for the very first time:
1. Don’t complain about her family
As a guy, when going on a date for the first time, refrain from complaining about your family. No lady would want to listen to you whining about family issues when you first meet.
2. Don’t ask too many questions
Please guys, don’t badger your date with so many questions. A date should be enjoyed, so don’t irritate the lady.
3. Don’t talk about se x
Talking about se x when you first meet your date can be a turn off for most people. Some ladies would want to get to know you before getting to that stage, even if there has to be anything like that in your relationship.
4. Don’t flirt with her
Guys is very important not to behave as if you are attracted to someone when you are not just for amusement. Don’t lead your date on when you clearly don’t have feelings.
5. Don’t fidget
As a guy fidgeting when you first meet your date sometimes shows that your man enough. Ladies like and appreciate guys who are confident about themselves.
6. Don’t pick your nose
It’s bad manners to pick your nose in public especially in front of a lady.
7. Do not talk about your wealth or earning
Bragging about your wealth or earnings the first time you meet a lady is turn off for most ladies. As a guy it shows how vain you can be and doesn’t show maturity.
8. Don’t let her pay
It is very wrong to allow a lady to pay the bill when you are out on a date with her for the first time. It doesn’t make you as a guy look serious.
9. Don’t ask for her age
When you first meet your date don’t ask for her age. Ladies get very sensitive when they meet a guy for the first time and they are asked their age.
10. Don’t be too quick to post joint picture on social media
No rush, wait for two-three dates.
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They were groped for a good cause on a Japanese TV marathon called “24-Hour TV: Eroticism Saves the Earth”. Do you support them?
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The Lagos State Police Command is investigating a case of a 19-year-old girl, Gbemisola, who claimed to have been ra ped by a university graduate, identified only as Kunle.
Gbemisola told PUNCH Metro that after the rape, Kunle, 24, began to blackmail her, threatening to release her Unclad photos if she refused to send him some money.
After the victim reportedly yielded to the threat two times, he allegedly demanded another payment of N10, 000.
When Gbemisola refused, the suspect was said to have posted the Unclad photos on the Internet, including her phone number.
The victim was said to have been called by some of her friends and family members who saw the pictures.
The incident happened in Agiliti Estate, Ketu area of Lagos State.
Afolabi, a caterer, told PUNCH Metro that she met the suspect about three weeks ago.
She said, “I was going home that Friday when he stopped me on the road and said he wanted to be my boyfriend. I told him I was already in a relationship with someone else, and that I was not interested.
“He said he would not mind being a mere friend. We exchanged contacts and I left for my house.
“I always post pictures of my new cakes on Whatsapp and he saw one of them and said he liked it. He said he wanted me to make a cake for him. I agreed.
“He asked where I was and I said I was at my sister’s shop. He said we should meet at the junction because the cake he wanted was on his phone and he would want to show me what he wanted.”
She explained that when they met, the suspect claimed to have forgotten the phone at his parent’s home in Agiliti Estate, and asked her to follow him home.
She alleged that no sooner had they got to the house than Kunle locked the door and raped her.
“I blamed myself for my predicament and I decided to bear the shame in silence.
“However, on Monday, which was three days after the rape, he called me, saying if I refused to meet him, I would regret it because he had my Unclad photos and he would post them on the Internet.
“I begged him and he said I should send him a N1,500 recharge card, which I did. Two days later, he demanded another N2, 000 recharge card, and I sent it.
“Later, he said I should send him N10,000. I was angry and dared him to do whatever he wanted to do.”
Gbemisola, who finished secondary school last year, said she was surprised when she saw her Unclad photos, with her phone number, on the Internet.
She said the incident had affected her psychologically.
The victim’s sister, Ramota, said she got to know about the incident from a family friend who saw the Unclad pictures.
She said, “My younger sister said she saw Gbemisola’s Unclad photos on someone’s phone. I was told she wanted to hurt herself due to the shame and disgrace it had brought on her.
“I followed some other family members to Kunle’s parents’ house and they promised to make him delete the photos. But we never knew the photos had gone viral.”
It was learnt that the case was first reported at the Lagos State Office of the Public Defender, before a community leader, Yomi Odegbami, took the matter to the Ketu Police Station.
Odegbami asked the government to bring the culprit to justice to serve as a deterrent to others.
“The police and the government should urgently wade into this case before other young girls fall victim of this wicked man,” he said.
Kunle, when contacted by our correspondent denied the allegation, saying he was in a relationship with Gbemisola.
He said the Unclad photos were not circulated by him, adding that the 19-year-old originally sent the photos to him during their conversation on
He said, “I am a graduate of a private university in Osun State and I know what I am doing. We met a few weeks ago and we started chatting on Whatsapp. I asked her to send me some of her pictures when she travelled to Ondo, and she said, ‘Is it my breasts?’, and I said yes.
“After that, I asked for the pictures of her private parts, and she sent them to me. I did a picsmix of the photos and jokingly sent it to her. I have since deleted the photos from my phone. The only regret I have was that I showed them to my friends.
“The first time she visited me, we didn’t do anything. It was the second time she came that we made love. I have all our chats as evidence that she sent those pictures to me.
“She came with her relatives to my house and damaged my laptop which I bought for over N90,000 and now, they are going to the press. I know my rights and if this is the way they want it, no problem.”
The Police Public Relations Officer, Joe Offor, said he would call back, but he had yet to do so as of the time of filing this report.
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