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For some people, the idea of trying to crave attention is a completely foreign concept. Even the thought of the room’s attention being on them is overwhelming sometimes. And seeing people lap up attention in as many settings as possible is utterly mind-blowing. This personality trait is just another one of the many things that make people different. And can cause a real divide or give rise to problems among friendship groups or work and social situations.
But, like with most characteristics, there is usually a reason behind someone’s attention-seeking ways. There are certainly ways for the more subtle people out there to deal with another person’s craving for attention. No matter the occasion. In this post, we are going to delve deeper into this concept and maybe help you achieve self-improvement.
Reasons why people crave attention
First and foremost, it’s good to understand why certain people do this and others don’t. Although there is no one definitive answer, there are several common reasons.
1) Habitual Behavior
Attention seeking is fairly common in young children, kids learn that if they create a scene they can end up getting what they want or they get the satisfaction on having all eyes on them making them feel like the most important person in the room. Although this is normal behavior in children, if parents are not firm in ignoring these habits, then attention-seeking children grown up to become attention-seeking adults. It is rarely appropriate to display attention-seeking tendencies as an adult, but these people have become so used to receiving what they want for much too long and now cannot change their mindset.
It is not unusual for someone to resort to attention-seeking when they are in a situation where they feel jealous. Jealousy can be due to many reasons, perhaps a woman is at the same party as her ex-boyfriend and his new girlfriend, maybe a kid who has been an only child for several years now has a sibling, or even a work colleague is being praised more frequently than they are. Whatever the reason, in the moment of jealousy, a common reaction from the jealous party is to crave attention, because all the while that they are getting attention then the person they are jealous if, is not.
3) To Off-Set Insecurities
Shy or insecure people are not often associated with any kind of attention-seeking behavior, however, this behavior can be the result of someone who is trying to hide their insecurities. It might end up coming off obnoxious, and not having the outcome the shy person was hoping for, but it is one of the easiest ways to deflect from any insecurities or social anxieties.
Of course, someone’s strong craving for attention might just simply be because they are a narcissist. Narcissists believe they are better than anyone else in the room, they usually have a superiority complex and one of the ways this manifests itself is through attention-seeking. Narcissists want everyone in the room to be looking at them, or listening to whatever they are saying because they believe they are the best person in the room, with the most important things to say. It’s like people who try and show-off their talents whenever the opportunity arises, for example, because they think it is better than everyone else’s.
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